Presentation
Abstract The present study examined whether siblings experience marital conflict differently and whether such differences, if present, were associated with differences in their adjustment. [ncbi.nlm.nih.gov]
Given this circumstance, it is surprising that it is as coherent, professionally presented and intellectually challenging as it is. [artsatl.org]
Entire Body System
- Pain
Alison Gardner There are few experiences in life as painful as being a parent and finding oneself in the throes of intense marital unhappiness and persistent conflict. [familycompass.com]
Re-Focus Marital conflict can localize our attention on the pain and setback to the extent that we miss the bigger picture. The naïve will say they never imagined they’d ever have a misunderstanding in marriage. [intentionaltoday.com]
We understand the pain of marital strife and the fact couples don’t want to get divorced, and we’re committed to helping restore and heal relationships. It starts with taking a close look at you and your spouse’s brain. [amenclinics.com]
The relationship is enmeshed, then disengaged – more abandonment…painful connectedness & separateness 10. [internet-of-the-mind.com]
Many couples try to sidestep or hide their conflict because disagreements can be painful. But conflict resolution, though it may sound complicated, is well within the reach of clear-thinking husbands and wives. [focusonthefamily.com]
- Falling
The stage of negotiating and compromising can appear to be positive, but it will fall apart without commitment and a mature understanding of the difficulties and distractions that must be overcome. [imom.com]
A marital complaint usually falls into one of two broad categories: 1) "You are not meeting my emotional needs," or 2) "Your behavior is upsetting me." [conflict911.com]
Perpetual Problems Unfortunately, the majority of marital conflicts fall into this category—69% according to Gottman’s research. [growingmarriages.org]
But just like many of the stories of old, pride did indeed goeth before the fall. Our first year of marriage coincided with our first jobs, first pregnancy, and first real taste of adulthood. [verilymag.com]
- Weakness
Faults and Weaknesses. Everyone has faults. Faults aren't sins. Faults could be based in the weaknesses of your spouse's personality. A person who seems to talk too much is a gregarious kind of person. [crosswalk.com]
They recognize their strengths, talents, and weaknesses as they develop self-confidence. But out of their strengths they also choose to remain together. [enrichmentjournal.ag.org]
This, the authors note, could be seen as both a weakness and a strength of the study. [medicalnewstoday.com]
For us men, we are so macho we think it is weakness to talk to a counselor about issues in our marriage. But that’s pride. And pride stinks! [intentionaltoday.com]
- Crying
We no longer raised our voices with each other—to the point that when we did during one silly spat about dinner, our oldest daughter started to cry. When I asked why she was crying, Bella told us she was worried we would get a divorce. [navpress.com]
Post-potty trained young children may regress to a loss of bowel control and may also cry more than usual. [mysahana.org]
The best time to resolve is not when he is hot tempered and she’s crying. Let’s calm down first and then resolve. ( Click to Tweet ) 2. Reconnect Isolation is a dangerous thing. [intentionaltoday.com]
[…] and starts to cry. What is going on? Oliver grew up middle class and therefore anticipates a lifetime of travel with his future spouse, of which the honeymoon is only one journey. [samefacts.com]
Gastrointestinal
- Overeating
to predict children's basal levels of RSA over time. [ncbi.nlm.nih.gov]
A second influential model of understanding how spouses manage marital conflict has been developed by John Gottman (1994) over several years. [encyclopedia.com]
While common sense might suggest that people work out their differences over time, and that marital conflict declines, the new study found otherwise. [webmd.com]
- Failure to Thrive
When babies are born, if they are not touched enough, they will have a failure to thrive and can even die. Much of the conflict couples experience occurs when their need to be touched is confused with their need to be sexual. [enrichmentjournal.ag.org]
Skin
- Eruptions
Take responsibility for your part When conflict erupts, take a step back and ask yourself what you might be contributing to the conflict. Our first inclination is to blame the other person. [mentalhelp.net]
When meaningful communications have broken down in a marriage, arguments may erupt over the most trivial things, sometimes becoming so frequent and so heated that the couple begins to feel that they are incompatible. [bible.org]
Psychiatrical
- Aggressive Behavior
Conflict topics presumed to be threatening to the child (child- or marital-related) also heightened the likelihood of aggression. Aggressive responding to conflict in both home and laboratory predicted externalizing behavior problems. [ncbi.nlm.nih.gov]
They may also engage in aggressive behavior such as picking fights with other children, using physical force with classmates (even if physical force is not used in the home), throwing objects, and having trouble following instructions or listening to [mysahana.org]
Even though it is often not reported to be a problem by couples, violence among newlyweds is a predictor of divorce, as is psychological aggression (verbal aggression and nonverbal aggressive behaviors that are not directed at the partner's body). [psychologicalscience.org]
Neurologic
- Excitement
What should be an exciting series of conversations becomes surprisingly unpleasant. Maggie resents Oliver’s nonchalance about where the trip should be; he’s seemingly happy with almost any destination. [samefacts.com]
Why couples lose love and affection for one another, develop conflict & aliention, and experience affairs or divorce The honeymoon phase Often, couples are brought together by a strong physical attraction and the excitement that each partner finds the [drnoahoderberg.com]
Read more exciting and practical articles on marriage. Just click on a link or graphic below. [foundationsforfreedom.net]
It confuses love, which is a decision and a commitment, with the feeling of physical and sexual attraction and lust, which most frequently diminishes over time for the vast majority of couples and which requires work to keep it fresh and exciting. [relationshipscoach.wordpress.com]
- Agitation
[…] other people Feel listless, worthless and profoundly sad Feel irritated, angry or grandiose Feel afraid and anxious Feel suspicious and withdrawn Tend to want to avoid confrontation Tends to be confront and start fights Feel nervous and passive Feel agitated [couplestherapyinc.com]
Maybe one person was agitated at times. And yet we didn’t argue. In our last session we showed the general approach to resolving major marital quarrels. [foundationsforfreedom.net]
Treatment
Implications for the treatment of depressed or maritally discordant couples are discussed. [ncbi.nlm.nih.gov]
treatment is working correctly Helping couples gain a better understanding of their brains through visuals The Mathisons’ Story † A few years ago, a couple came into Amen Clinics after failing marriage counseling. [amenclinics.com]
marital counseling should be done by a licensed mental health professional who has specific training in marital and family dynamics and treatment. [ohelfamily.org]
Each chapter revolves around a specific situational conflict, with guidelines and treatment suggestions offered to the therapist. [routledge.com]
Etiology
Specific tasks in a proposed research agenda: develop assessment modules; determine the clinical utility of relational disorders; determine the role of relational disorders in the etiology and maintenance of individual disorders; and consider aspects [en.wikipedia.org]
Epidemiology
Epidemiological evidence indicates asbestos causes laryngeal cancer. Journal of Occupational Medicine, 32, 499-507. Google Scholar Snyder, J. (1998). Marital conflict and child adjustment:What about gender? Developmental Review, 18, 390-420. [link.springer.com]
Item bias in the Center for Epidemiologic Studies Depression scale: Effects of physical disorders and disability in an elderly community sample. [ncbi.nlm.nih.gov]
Prevention
Prevention and intervention efforts that consider these findings are warranted. [ncbi.nlm.nih.gov]
The best approach to making marriage work is to prevent marital conflict. Preparing for marriage is aided by pre-marital counseling. [imom.com]
Interparental conflict as a risk factor for child maladjustment: Implications for the development of prevention programs. Family Court Review, 43, 97-108. Grych, J.H., Seid, M., & Fincham, F.D. (1992). [cab.unime.it]